Books by Matt Holden

If you’ve always wanted to converse easily with strangers but the awkward silences have held you back, then keep reading…Are you sick and tired of not being able to network with ease?Have you tried endless other solutions, but nothing seems to work consistently?Do you finally want to say goodbye to social anxiety and discover something which works for you?If so, then you’ve come to the right place.You see, conversations don’t have to be difficult.Even if you’ve tried pretending you are an extrovert (how did that go?)!In fact, it’s easier than you think.It seems the world is catching on to the unique role introverts can play in communications. Active listeners and acute observers, introverts are able to pick up on the subtleties of what is going on in any situation, much of what has been missed by the extroverts (who are too busy talking).Storytellers, writers, thinkers and observers, introverts bring special talents to the world around them and their time has come.If you are an introvert–and you probably are, given that you are reading this – you are in luck.This book will show you how can communicate effectively with different types of people, in all types of situations, including meeting strangers and getting them to talk, all without suppressing your natural introvert tendencies.In fact, it is by acknowledging that introverts have unique needs–such as time alone, which is as important as water and air to the introvert–that the power of introverts can be realized.Which means you can meet strangers and have great conversations without sacrificing your soul.Here’s just a tiny fraction of what you’ll discover:How introverts and extroverts differ–and why it’s perfectly ok to be an introvert!What makes different types of people tick–and how you can adapt your approach to get resultsHow to overcome anxiety by taking care of what you need most as an introvertWhat body language signals are sayingHow to adopt an open body stance that says you are approachableWhy looking at your phone is the worst thing you can do during an awkward momentHow to ask open questions that will have strangers talking to you in no timeWhat likeability is and how you can increase yoursSmall talk tips specific to introvertsSelf-care for introvertsAnd, much much more!Take a second to imagine how you’ll feel once you have made a few forays into meeting new people at events, and how your family and friends will react when you are the one talking about the interesting fellow you met at a networking event!So even if you’re used to hiding in the hotel bathroom when you’re supposed to be at the meet-and-greet part of the conference you are attending, you can now partake of the hors d'oeuvre you have been missing out on while making small talk with strangers.And if you have a burning desire to analyze your co-workers and talk with confidence about your ideas in the workplace, then scroll up and click “add to cart”.

If you want to discover how to analyze people, then keep reading…In this book, you will be exposed to ways of pulling back the masks of people and taking an interrogative look at the individuals that hide beneath them.We often find ourselves fascinated with the art of reading people, likely driven by our desire, our addiction to knowledge. And what can be more interesting and enrapturing to the human mind aside from another human mind? There are so many different kinds of people, and each individual within those categories acts for their own unique reasons with their own motivations.This book is about being able to accurately estimate what context might be behind the way a person acts and how to use the skills you find in that process to aid in all other areas of your life, including personal and business relationships and internal concepts you may have on a more philosophical level.Here’s just a tiny fraction of what you’ll discover:How We ConnectThe Art of a CategoryLooking InwardHuman Body’s LanguageWhat Humans Hold InsideIntelligenceTo Convince the MindTwo-Sided CoinThe Science of Quick-SlicingWhat It All MeansAnd, much much more!So if you want to learn more about how to analyze people, scroll up and click the "add to cart" button!

If you want to discover how to spot and adopt alpha behavior, then keep reading…Have you ever wondered why some people get promoted at work?Or why some bosses are more respected than others?Would you like to learn how to be more confident in social situations and how you can combat shyness?This book will discuss how successful people, specifically those noted as alphas, communicate with body language. What makes people take notice? What is it about them that communicates power?This book will discuss what it means to be an alpha and what makes them winners in whatever they do. It is a description of their characteristics and traits and how they impact others through nonverbal communication--from how they walk, stand, hold their hands, head movements, and facial expressions to what each of their movements means.Here’s just a tiny fraction of what you’ll discover:What Is An “Alpha” And Why Are They Winners?The Alpha Male: How to Spot OneThe Alpha Female: How to Spot OneBody Language in Social Situations: How to CharmBody Language in Dating: How to Impress with CharismaBody Language at Work: How to Be MemorableAnd, much much more!So if you want to learn more about body language, scroll up and click the "add to cart" button!

If you want the kind of social intelligence that will allow you to succeed in any social situation, then keep reading…Would you like to discover how some people can seem to fit in anywhere?Are you curious to discover the one thing you should never do at a party with your coworkers?Do you want to master the art of small talk and learn how to win people over?If so, then you’ve come to the right place.You see, developing great social skills doesn’t have to be difficult.Even if you feel that you've tried all the tips and tricks out there.In fact, it’s easier than you think, even you're an introvert. Studies suggest that up to half the population in the United States are introverts and if you think all of them are bad socially, then think again!This book provides pertinent advice based on modern research and an overview of some reputable people and how they socialize.The process of communication is crucial, and this book will enable you to understand the basic concepts of effective communication.Here’s just a tiny fraction of what you’ll discover:How to deal with social anxietyThe one thing that's probably holding you back from developing excellent social skills and how to overcome itIntrovert traits and common myths about introvertsHow to analyze people and their body languageFace readingThe four personality typesHow to detect a liarHow to make body language your superpowerHandling small talk as an introvertCommon problems introverts face in relationships and how to overcome themIntrovert problems in an open workplace and how to overcome themIntrovert problems at social gatherings, events, and parties and ways to deal with them4 ways to improve your emotional intelligencePractical communication tipsAnd, much much more!Take a second to imagine how you’ll feel once you have made a few forays into meeting new people at events, and how your family and friends will react when you are the one talking about the interesting fellow you met at a networking event!So even if you’re used to hiding in the hotel bathroom when you’re supposed to be at the meet-and-greet part of the conference you are attending, you can now partake of the hors d'oeuvre you have been missing out on while making small talk with strangers.And if you have a burning desire to analyze your co-workers and talk with confidence because of your social skills, then scroll up and click “add to cart”.

If you’ve always wanted to learn more about yourself and discover how to analyze people, then keep reading…Two manuscripts in one book:How to Analyze People: Unlocking the Secrets of Personality Types, Body Language, The Dark Psychology of Human Behavior, Emotional Intelligence, Persuasion, Manipulation, and Speed-Reading PeopleEnneagram: An Essential Guide to Unlocking the 9 Personality Types to Increase Your Self-Awareness and Understand Other Personalities So You Can Build Better Relationships and Improve CommunicationIn this book, you will be exposed to ways of pulling back the masks of people and taking an interrogative look at the individuals that hide beneath them.We often find ourselves fascinated with the art of reading people, likely driven by our desire, our addiction to knowledge. And what can be more interesting and enrapturing to the human mind aside from another human mind? There are so many different kinds of people, and each individual within those categories acts for their own unique reasons with their own motivations.This book is about being able to accurately estimate what context might be behind the way a person acts and how to use the skills you find in that process to aid in all other areas of your life, including personal and business relationships and internal concepts you may have on a more philosophical level.In part 1 of this book, you will learn about:How We ConnectThe Art of a CategoryLooking InwardHuman Body’s LanguageWhat Humans Hold InsideIntelligenceTo Convince the MindTwo-Sided CoinThe Science of Quick-SlicingWhat It All MeansAnd, much much more!Some of the topics covered in part 2 of this book include:The unique and far-reaching history of the Enneagram of PersonalityExploration of personality typesCase examples for comparisonWays to interpret your and others’ typesCommunication styles of each of the typesHow to improve your communicationHow to use the Enneagram to build better relationshipsSelf-awareness and personalityWhy we are the way we areChildhood development and personalityHow to reach the authentic selfHow to have acceptance and kindness for yourself and othersInfo on the triads, wings, and variantsSpiritual grounding in the EnneagramMethods for solving problemsCoping skills, good and badQuestions to ask yourselfTips for self-realizationAnd much, much moreIf you want to learn more about how to analyze people and the enneagram, then scroll up and click “add to cart”!