this book had helped me to understand my friends, partner and family better. I now see the world through their eyes, I couldn’t relate to them before because I couldn’t understand how a person just like me acts so different then me in a so many situations. I used to get upset from that, but now i speak their language (my friend even told me after I read this book that I finally understand her). another bonus is that i love my friends and partner so much more then before, as I get to see how wonderful they are, the way they are. It also helped me understand why I act the way I act, what I should notice (and work on). I got to meet and even like myself. this book is dear to my heart, it is not a one time read, i use it every time i meet a challenging situation. It should be available in every book store as a public service, seriously. Love it!